Sep 9 2019

You will never change

After months of whatever it was, I came to know that you have hidden another big thing about you current life from your own family and have asked to keep it as a secret by your friend and I have a feeling that you have not told anyone about it..

Why doesn't it surprise me?
Why am I not shocked to hear these?
Why do I feel bad for the poor woman though I don't like her even a little bit?
Why am I thinking what would have happened if that kid was a girl?
Why do I feel bad for that kid?
Does he even understand that his supposed to be family member has kept him out of the family?
Do he know that he is hidden too?
It's not a social status or some bad behavior or a secret love affair which has to be hidden, it's an another person, it's a kid!
Why do I feel that you should have accepted her with all that she is, including her kid?

Isn't love about accepting the person for who he/she is?
That kid is very much part of her, you might ask her to hide the facebook posts and ask her to delete the account, can you get rid of the kid too?
I know why she does, she might love you and want to help you though she may not be completely ok with it..

Why are you so selfish, particularly to the people who love you for who you are?
Will you ever change?
Or is that who you are and we all have to live with that?

Someday, someday. I am sure SOMEDAY, You will have to face it for real. I am not gonna say or tell anyone, but you have to answer yourself for all that you have done to people who only loved you and nothing else. You can't keep using people as you please and throw them when done.